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Alive in the Goneness
To rustle with leaves Emerge with flower Run with waves Immerse in ripples of mountain streams To sip breezes – and whiskey To hear...
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Mar 6, 20231 min read


The Sound of Crushed Silence
I do not pretend to understand God, but I do know that when Spirit prompts with a sure instinct, I need to act. There is a lesson or a...
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Dec 23, 20222 min read


When Are We?
We – each of us – hold in our hearts the Questions of Time. The deep queries of our souls. Questions of what truly matters. Questions of...
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Nov 23, 20225 min read


The Little Hour of Nones
Autumn shadows deepen - Living the mystery of Life & Death A dear friend is preparing to be a Death Doula, one who guides the dying...
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Oct 28, 20226 min read


Poem for an Ordinary Day
It’s just an ordinary day, in Ordinary Time. Where my life seems caught – again – in the tasks of living. Doing rather than being....
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Sep 28, 20223 min read


Selah
No one knows what the ancient term Selah means. It’s an enigma, found 71 times in the Psalms of the Bible and 3 times in the book of the...
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Aug 3, 20224 min read


Where the Road Went
"Why did you go that way?" asked the daughter. "To see where the road went," said the father. The parents of a dear friend liked to take...
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Apr 30, 20221 min read


The Sanctuary
Because we all long for sanctuary, especially right now, I invite you to see through our eyes the place we call The Sanctuary. Here in...
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Mar 17, 20223 min read


Breathing Room
There are no unimportant people, no small roles. Not ever. And especially not now. This world’s problems seem so overwhelming as they are...
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Mar 6, 20222 min read


My Corner of Hope
Mindfulness in Everyday Places Recently, a friend thanked me for inspiration he found in one of my writings on this website, Finding My...
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Feb 1, 20223 min read


The Elementals Quartet
PRELUDE - Created in the Chaos of Time Our Universe, our very world, is filled with seen and unseen elements that I ponder with spiritual...
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Jan 2, 20227 min read


Slow Roads and Other Rhythms
I took the slow road to the beach, through old trees and old towns. The pace gentle and the timing easy. Hard work that is honorable is...
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Dec 4, 20212 min read


Beyond the Sandbar
Ocean barrier Shallow in the deep Walking on water in water with water Limitless spirit in my limited dimension A space conundrum, a time...
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Nov 3, 20211 min read


Fall Walk in New Jersey
Even my slow and gentle footfall, muffled by mosses, frightens the creatures near the dirt trail. Four leggèd ones and wingèd ones...
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Oct 5, 20211 min read


Flying Lessons
"For things to reveal themselves to us, we need to be ready to abandon our views about them." Thich Nhat Hanh You may not believe my...
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Jul 9, 20214 min read


Recollections
for Wesley, who requested a poem; for Clyde Ray, whose presence is never far; and for my Sarah Swann sisters, who are among my best...
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Jun 15, 20211 min read


To Dance on Air
They make me smile, these cicadas do. Swinging on air in wide arcs across the field of our backyard to the woods. Now dipping, now...
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Jun 9, 20212 min read


Recycled Linens - A Mother's Day Tribute
In a pastor’s home there were many expectations and in the 1950s and 1960s; entertaining was a big one. Fortunately, mama and daddy both...
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May 9, 20213 min read


Wise Spirit
"I just wish I had a wise old woman to tell me what to do," I whispered to Spirit as I walked a favorite path one evening. The details of...
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Apr 11, 20213 min read


Finding.My.Real
"Where is the Life we have lost in living?” T.S. Eliot, Choruses from the Rock. Over the years I’ve lost a lot of Life in the living....
dbb@findingmyreal.com
Mar 13, 20214 min read
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